Recently, I was learning about electrode processes and I came across the topic of "electrode potentials". I understood that at equilibrium, a potential difference was generated at the interface between the electrode and the electrolyte because of the formation of an electric double layer.
I was reading this article which says that on dipping metals into their respective salt solutions, positive ions readily form and move into the solution leaving behind electrons in the electrode and a dynamic equilibrium is achieved soon.
Across different metals, only the position of the equilibrium (magnitude of negative charges on the metal electrode) differs due to their differing tendencies to oxidize (or reduce).
(I understood this part)
On the other hand, I’ve also seen in some other texts that at equilibrium, the charge acquired by the metal might be either positive or negative depending on its tendency to oxidize (or reduce) (unlike the $1$st source where they say the charge will be always negative).
Examples of
$\ce{Zn}$ ($\ce{Zn}$ has greater tendency to form $\ce{Zn^2+}$ ions hence metal acquires negative charge) $$\ce{Zn<=>>Zn^2+ + 2e^-}$$
and
$\ce{Cu}$ ($\ce{Cu^2+}$ ions have greater tendency to get reduced hence $\ce{Cu}$ metal acquires positive charge) $$\ce{Cu^2+ + 2e^-<=>>Cu}$$ are usually given.
(I also understood this explanation)
But what is confusing me is which of the above explanations is correct (or more accurate)?
Because if we go by the $2$nd view, we have that $\ce{Cu}$ ions are more likely to get reduced so let’s say the $\ce{Cu}$ electrode becomes positively charged when ions from the solution stick to the metal, but at the same time few other $\ce{Cu}$ atoms in the metal will also get oxidized (because there are limited electrons in the $\ce{Cu}$ electrode) and dissolve so there’s no net oxidation or reduction. If this indeed happens then at equilibrium the $\ce{Cu}$ electrode will have no net charge (which isn't possible).
Note-I've seen a few other answers here on this site like this, this and this but none of these seem to address the confusion I'm having.
Any suggestion will be of great importance.