I am working on a series of octahedral complexes of the type $\ce{[M(CO)2(CH3)X3]-}$ where $\ce{M} = \ce{Co}, \ce{Rh}, \ce{Ir},$ and $\ce{X}$ is a range of ligands (halide, cyanide, nitrosyl, etc.). Now, the complexes all have either a mirror plane or a $C_2$ axis which makes the two $\ce{CO}$ ligands equivalent by symmetry (This is a crucial point).
I know the usual rule that the more electron density the metal has, the stronger the backbonding to the $\ce{CO}$ ligand will be, and this will make the $\ce{C#O}$ bond weaker and will therefore reduce the $\nu_\ce{CO}$ stretch frequency in the infrared region.
However, in this case there are more than two $\ce{CO}$ ligands which are symmetrically equivalent. This means there are two different $\ce{CO}$ stretch bands. I have encountered cases where changing the $\ce{X}$ ligand causes one band to go up and the other band to go down. How do I interpret the change in back-bonding in these cases?
My first thought was that, since they are equivalent, we are sort of taking the linear combination of the bond stretch vectors ($\vec{r}_1 +\vec{r}_2$ and $\vec{r}_1 -\vec{r}_2$) so the higher frequency band is the one we want to look at to see if overall the $\ce{CO}$ stretches have gone down. But this seems a bit unscientific and not rigorous, and the stretch frequency values are certainly not linear combinations, they are both near $\pu{2000 cm-1}$.
My question is—how should I interpret the $\ce{CO}$ stretch data and the backbonding strength when there are more than one $\ce{CO}$ ligand?
Example data ($\ce{M} = \ce{Rh}$):
$$\begin{array} {|r|r|}\hline & \mathrm{CO\;stretch\;freq. (cm^{-1})} \\ \hline \ce{X} = \ce{F} & 1980,2067 \\ \hline \ce{X}= \ce{Cl} & 1992,2062 \\ \hline \end{array}$$
Here one band goes up and the other goes down when changing $\ce{F}$ to $\ce{Cl}$. So what can I infer about the backbonding to $\ce{CO}$?
Note that these data (i.e. $\ce{CO}$ stretches, geometries) are all from computations. But I am not just looking for computational approaches; I am also curious as to how the $\ce{metal-CO}$ $\pi$-backbonding in a polycarbonyl compound will be analysed, if the $\ce{CO}$ stretches are coupled to each other due to symmetry (even in experimental IR spectrum).