As I was reading about nephelauxetic effects, which is the effect that atomic d-orbitals are bigger in a complex than in gaseous metal ions. The Racah interelectronic repulsion parameter gets smaller, indicating that doubly occupied d-orbitals are bigger in complexes than in an atom (why only doubly occupied though, shouldn't there also be less repulsion between, lets say singly occupied d-orbitals?). I wondered what reasons there could be for that. The two most cited reasons are:
- decreased effective nuclear charge, partially neutralized by the ligand sphere
- formation of covalent bond character with the ligand
The first option seems fine enough for me, but 2) makes little sense for me. The ligand field splitting arises because the partially filled d-orbitals want to avoid the double occupied ligand orbitals, therefore assuming a position where the electronic repulsion is smallest.
Why would they form covalent bonds then, or is that just a consequence of MO theory that we have to acccept?