The short answer is that I need to come up with better wording to describe the interaction and that Hückel is surprisingly bad for these systems.
I'll give a slightly longer answer for now, and add a reference as we submit the paper.
First, an example system:
So "A" is a strongly electron-deficient dinitrothiophene ring (an electron acceptor) and "B" is a strongly electron-rich diaminothiophene ring. The figure in the question is a subset of the entire MO diagram, focusing on the HOMOs of the monomers and the HOMO and HOMO-1 of the dimer.
Why do I think this is a strange system? Well, the particle-in-a-box and Hückel models are usually pretty good at explaining conjugated organic molecules. If you make a longer conjugated system, the HOMO should go up in energy, and the HOMO-LUMO gap goes down (delocalization).
The alternative, localization, would have the orbitals remain at the same energy level:
Both of those "limits" can be explained in the Hückel model by changing the $H_{ab}$ or $\beta$ parameter (depending on how you write the equation, the symbol is different). In the localized case, $H_{ab} = 0$.
What's strange about these strong donor-acceptor cases is that as I said, it's not really delocalized, or localized.
Instead, as one comment correctly deduced, the DFT calculation (B3LYP/6-31G*) shows a large degree of charge transfer, but not necessarily localization. The dipole moment computed to be >7 Debye.
If one attempts to use Hückel to analyze these results, you must infer that $H_{ab}$ is imaginary. This indicates an "open system" because electrons are indeed transferred - from monomer "B" to monomer "A" creating the large dipole moment.
My overly-simplified question was probably a bit confusing, but:
- It's interesting that no simple model captures charge transfer unless you allow Hückel to have imaginary (non-physical) $H_{ab}$ parameters. (NB, my colleagues aren't too happy with this concept, suggesting it simply indicates Hückel is a poor choice.)
- It's surprising that in prototypical conjugated systems, I can't (yet) find a discussion about this alternative to delocalization and localization. We find it commonly as the difference in energy level increases.