If you have a molecular model kit, or a computer simulation that plays a similar role, use it to build both molecules. You discover that neither (2) nor (4) is entirely planar: (4) is not planar because the internal methylene group is out of plane (the only way to get realistic bond angles at the central carbon), and you find (2) is not planar because of the internal hydrogen atoms pushing each other out of the way and distorting the ring accordingly. But (4) comes much closer to being planar. Thus (4) is more likely to show at least some of the conjugation which, with an optimal $4n+2$ electron count, makes the ring aromatic.