I've been cracking my head trying to make sense of Molecular Orbital Theory, but all sources I find are simplistic {If anyone has an online course or a book to recommend, I'd really appreciate}. Therefore, my questions are quite simplistic:
1 - Why should atoms in the first row {Hydrogen} interact with atoms in other rows {Lithium, Beryllium, Boron, etc}? I mean, as a way to answer why two Hydrogen atoms form a Molecular Orbital in the first place, I have the postulate that it is due to Pauli Exclusion Principle: as the 1s Orbitals - and, by extension, its electron - overlap, a new orbital is formed to avoid* having two electrons with the same quantum numbers. But, when Lithium approaches Hydrogen, there is only a significant overlap between 1s and 2s Orbitals. In this sense, there is no threat* to Pauli's principle, given that the approaching electrons do NOT have the same quantum numbers. Which yields the question: how do Lithium and Hydrogen bond?
. * I understand that the universe doesn't care about what we, smart monkeys, think of it. It doesn't see things as "threats". Still, interpreting things this way makes everything easier.
2 - Why won't Helium bond with Hydrogen? The approach of He and H should form bonding and anti-bonding Orbitals, which will be filled with three electrons. This should place two electrons in the Sigma Bond, but only one in the Sigma* Bond. Therefore, the bond order is 0.5! So why HeH isn't observed? Another way to phrase it: If He2+ can exist as a molecule, why can't HeH?
Thank you very much for your time.
Sorry if I messed something up.