I have a doubt regarding the shape of the $\mathrm{sp^3}$ hybridised orbital. I looked up for it on stackexchange and found a post where the guy said that where ever the orbitals interfere with opposite signs of the wavefunction they cancel out and hence we get a small lobe . He further said that when the right side of the p orbital overlaps with s orbital( i have linked the post) they both add up.
But the $\mathrm{s}$ orbital wavefunction can also have negative sign (in the post the guy has assumed that s orbital wavefunction is always positive) . So in all four interference combinations are possible : ++ , +- , -+ , - - . Hence the shape should be different but its not.
I am really confused about this. Any help is appreciated.
Thanks in Advance. Link to original post : https://chemistry.stackexchange.com/a/15909