I recently came across a question Why is the vanadium(3+) ion paramagnetic?, where the asker is wondering how $\ce{V^{3+}}$ is paramagnetic (he used Aufbau in reverse to remove the electrons), while the correct answerer to that question remarked that removing electrons must follow the order from outer shell to inner shell. For example, in the case of $\ce{V^{3+}}$ the electronic configuration of $\ce{V}$ is $\ce{[Ar] 3d^3 4s^2}$. The asker used reverse-Aufbau, which is $\ce{[Ar] 3d^0 4s^2}$; while the actuality was $\ce{[Ar] 3d^2 4s^0}$.
My question: Why does filling electrons follow a certain rule, while removing them follows a different rule?