I'd like to add a few points definition wise from the IUPAC goldbook.
(Because recently the original website seems to be broken I am using links via the internet archive.)
meso
A prefix to indicate the presence of a symmetry element of the second kind (see chirality) in a chemical species which is usually one of a set of diastereoisomers that also includes a chiral member.
However, there is a more general definition, too:
meso-compound
A term for the achiral member(s) of a set of diastereoisomers which also includes one or more chiral members.
The first part clearly does not apply to the cis-isomer, (1R,2S)-1,2-dimethylcyclohexane, the second does because of the definition of chirality.
chirality
The geometric property of a rigid object (or spatial arrangement of points or atoms) of being non-superposable on its mirror image; such an object has no symmetry elements of the second kind (a mirror plane, σ = S1, a centre of inversion, i = S2, a rotation-reflection axis, S2n). If the object is superposable on its mirror image the object is described as being achiral.
I think the key point of this definition is in this case, that the object needs to be rigid, which (1R,2S)-1,2-dimethylcyclohexane is not at room temperature. If you cool down the solution, inhibiting the ring flip, you would probably be able to find both configurations; that is a racemic mixture of them.
Since (1R,2R)-1,2-dimethylcyclohexane and (1S,2S)-1,2-dimethylcyclohexane, the trans-conformers, are both chiral (and enantiomers), the remaining member of the set (1R,2S)-1,2-dimethylcyclohexane can be considered a meso-compound, since it is achiral.