How to interpret m quantum number values?

Question

If one electron has the quantum numbers $n = 4,\ l = 3,\ m_l = +2,\ m_s =-1/2$ and another electron has the quantum numbers $n=4,\ l= 3,\ m_l = -2,\ m_s=+1/2$, what are the similarities between the orbitals in which the electron's are found?

My answer is : They have the same number of energy shells. They have the same shape. Their orientations are different and they have different directions of spin.

I checked the answer and it said that the first one lies on the $x$ and $y$ axis and the other one will lie between the $z$ and $y$ axis. But how do they know that? If $m_l= +2$, does that necessarily mean it lies on the $x$ and $y$ axis. And if $m_l = -2$, does that mean it lies between the $x$ and $y$ axis?

Answer 1

OP's answer is technically right while additional details about specific orientations of the real $f$-orbitals mentioned somewhere else are basically wrong. At best such details can be thought of the matter of some convention, but it is better to avoid such conventions.

The thing is that for any value of the azimuthal quantum number $l$ an orbital with a non-zero value of the magnetic quantum number $m$ is complex thanks to $\mathrm{e}^{imf}$ factor. Chemists prefer to work with real orbitals formed by taking linear combinations of complex orbitals. However, such linear combinations are not eigenfunctions of $L_z$, or, in other words, $m$ is no longer a good quantum number (but its absolute value is).

In particular, for both $f_{xyz}$ and $f_{z(x^2−y^2)}$ orbitals $|m|=2$, or $m=\pm2$, but the statement that the former corresponds to $m=-2$ and the later to $m=2$ is technically wrong.