Fluorine has an electron affinity of about -300 kJ/mol. Lithium has an electron affinity of about 60 kJ/mol.
As I understand it when $\ce{Li^-}$ loses an electron about 60 kJ/mol is released but when $\ce{F}$ gains an electron about 300 kJ/mol is released.
Furthermore, when $\ce{Li^+}$ gains an electron about 520 kJ/mol is released because that is the first ionization energy of lithium and when $\ce{F^+}$ gains an electron about 1700 kJ/mol of energy is released because that is the first ionization energy of fluorine.
Shouldn't the cases that release the most energy be $\ce{Li}$ and $\ce{F^-}$ and so shouldn't those be the states that gases of those elements occupy?
Is it the case that $\ce{2F^-}$ is less stable than $\ce{F2}$ or something? Or is it the case that $\ce{F^-}$ could only exist in a highly artificial situation such as a magnetic contraption that trapped ions?
Why don't gases of elements with negative electron affinities exist as ions in nature?