Shouldn't reaching an octet be any atom's "goal"?
However, I've recently learned about cases that are either expanding octets, or have lesser than "enough" electrons for an octet abiding. e.g.:
S in sulfur hexafluoride (Expanding octet into $\text{3d}$)
B in boron trifluoride (It's "hextet", instead of octet)
However, both $\ce{SnCl2}$ and $\ce{SnCl4}$ are existent. The latter is explainable with octet, but not the former. Surprisingly, $\ce{SnCl2}$ is more stable!
- How?
- Why is the phenomenon happening?
Dave pointed out that the octet nonabidingness is happening in the vapor phase. So I redirect the question to ask about the vapor phase; since that's what I'm looking for.