Recently, I was taught that the coefficients of the reactants in an elementary step of a reaction indicates that reactant's order. Why is this the case? I thought that the order of a reactant was not related to its coefficient.
For example, in the following termolecular reaction mechanism
$$\ce{A + 2B -> C + 2D}$$
the rate law is $k[\ce{A}][\ce{B}]^2$. Why is this the case?
EDIT: Also, for equilibrium reactions, do we always assume the coefficients of the reactants to provide the order for those reactants? What about for equilibrium reactions involving multiple steps?