There was no choice; the preponderance of H meant it had to be used. The differences between H and D are small and there seems to be no real advantage to choosing D over H. The small increases in bond strengths do not overcome the deficiencies in rates. It would be interesting were H and D in different proportions, say 25-75. Would life have used each to its advantages or would two different strains have evolved?
This has not happened in the selection of elements. C definitely won out over Si, but N and P, S and O, Cl- and HCO3- have all reached detente and found their functions. The alkalines do replace each other, Sr will replace Ca but Mg found a niche. The alkalis do a similar dance let your Na+/K+ get out of balance and see what happens. The transition elements seem undecided, were the amounts different, different enzymes might have evolved, Fe, Cu, Mn, Co, and possibly others seem to have found their niche. Al seems to have no function probably because of nonavailability as an ion or possibly it is deadly. F- is again not very available, possibly a good thing, but I found a use in the thyroid.
This study partially deuterated some bacteria possibly suggesting research into completely deuterated species: https://www.pnas.org/doi/10.1073/pnas.1420406112