About valency books say following things:
1- Valency is combining capacity of an atom with number of hydrogen atoms or double of oxygen atoms with which the atom combines.
Doubt A: what is valency of C in C2H2 and CO?
2- Valency is number of electrons gained, lost or shared by atom to complete its octate.
Doubts B: in CO carbon shares 2 electrons and gains 2 electrons. There are triple bond between C and O. Should valency of carbon be 2 or 3 or 4?
Then
3- Electrovalency = number of charge on an ion.
And
4- Covalency = number of shared electrons.
Then books say that
5- For an element covalency and electrovalency are equal.
Then books say that
6- Valency of carbon is 4.
Now when I see carbon monoxide (CO), I am not able to figure out valency of carbon or oxygen.
Then comes oxidation number (hypothetical charge), which seems to be similar to electrovalency (actual charge), but still some online sources say these are different things.
Doubt C: Why do we calculate oxidation number? How is it different from electrovalency? Is the only difference hypothetical and actual?