To write down the equilibrium constant expression, you use concentrations, not volumes or mass. To illustrate this with an example you can check in your kitchen, a saturated salt solution does not get saltier by adding more salt (you have pure undissolved solid salt in either case). It does not get less salty if you remove part of the undissolved salt.
The equilibrium between liquid and solid water is a bit special because both species are pure. Adding more ice or adding more water will not change the "concentrations" or the freezing point of water.
- [...] more ice melts but the temperature doesn't changes and stopped heating so a new equilibrium got established [...]
No, you still have pure water and pure ice, so the equilibrium constant is still the same, and the concentrations are still the same - it is not a new equilibrium. On the other hand, if you pour salt into the water, the liquid water concentration drops (no longer pure) and the solid water concentration remains constant, so then you are out of equilibrium, and ice will melt and the temperature will decrease. With pure water, when the temperature is higher or lower than the freezing point, ice will melt or water will freeze until we are at the freezing temperature (or we run out of ice or water).
[... from OP's comments] how the temperature will decrease??? suppose if we have ice and water at 100 degrees and I add ideal solute to the water ,the concentration of water would decrease and it will only decrease the no. of water molecules going back to the solid state but the no of solid molecules going to liquid state remains the same so equilibrium will shift forward but here also "the equilibrium constant" should remain the same if we think this way.... but it doesn't if we think of its formula why?
In ice, water has 4 hydrogen bonds. In liquid water, it has less. So transferring a water molecule from ice to water is an endothermic process, and it will cool the system down (thermal energy turns into potential energy).
- [...] so just like evaporation in a closed beaker the water reaches an equilibrium state with its vapors at all temperatures, ice should also do the same with water but it doesn't.
The difference between pure liquid water and a gas mixture of water and air ("humid" air) is that the water in humid air is not pure. You can have air with higher or lower humidity. The water in a half-full closed bottle will evaporate until the humidity reaches its equilibrium value. On the other hand, liquid and solid water are both pure, and are at equilibrium (at normal pressure) only if the temperature is equal to the normal freezing point.
What we observe in our daily life is whole ice melts into water but shouldn't the "equilibrium" still exist because its a reversible reaction
Because the ambient temperature in our lives is usually higher than the freezing point of water, and because our containers are not perfectly insulated, we keep transferring heat to the container. By the way, even when ice melts, at the molecular level, some liquid water molecules still attach to the solid. The process of water molecules going from solid to liquid just happens to be faster.
[from OP's comment] does that mean the equilibrium between ice and water exists at all temperatures?? so why do textbooks says and also the phase diagrams says that it exists "only" at freezing point
If water and ice come in contact, there will be a forward and a reverse process (freezing and melting) at the particular level. When the two phases have the same temperature and these two process have the same rate, it is called equilibrium. Because the rates are the same at equilibrium, there is no net change, i.e. the amount of ice will neither increase nor decrease. The temperature where this happens is called the freezing point or melting point, even though at this point, there is not bulk freezing or melting.
[...from OP's comments] can u please explain"dynamically" what's going on when u add "ideal solute" to the water ?? I understand that the concentration of water would decrease and more ice will melt....but if we will think how the activity of the molecules actually affected on adding solute things get difficult? like if i add an ideal solute to the liquid it will not change the bonding because its ideal so what I think is the no. of water molecules going back to solid state should still remain the same??
An ideal solute will not interact different with water than a water molecule, but it can't become part of the ice lattice (it does not fit). So instead of - say - 100 water molecules bumping into the ice surface, now 99 water molecules and one other molecule bump into it, decreasing the rate of attachment of water molecules to the ice.