The question is long because I wanted to include the whole thought process.
Given the hypothetical reaction:
$$\ce{ A(s) + B(aq) <=> C(aq) + D(aq)}$$
One would obtain the equilibrium constant:
$$K_c =\dfrac{[\ce{C}][\ce{D}]}{[\ce{B}]}$$
The "concentration" of $\ce{A}$ is excluded from the equilibrium constant because its activity is taken to be unity. As such, changing the amount of solid does not affect the position of equilibrium and does not lead to changes in the concentrations of $\ce{B}$, $\ce{C}$ and $\ce{D}$. So far this makes sense to me.
However, I run into problems when I consider this from a kinetics perspective. Let us consider a water-filled container containing $\ce{B(aq)}$, $\ce{C(aq)}$, $\ce{D(aq)}$ and some excess $\ce{A(s)}$, and the system is at equilibrium.
The system would be in dynamic equilibrium, such that
$$\text{rate}_\text{forward}=k_\text{forward}\ce{[B]}$$ $$\text{rate}_\text{reverse}=k_\text{forward}\ce{[C][D]}$$ $$K_c=\frac{k_{f}}{k_{r}}=\frac{[\ce{C}][\ce{D}]}{[\ce{B}]}$$
Scenario (1): If I were to now remove the excess $\ce{A(s)}$ from the container, the concentrations of $\ce{[B]}$, $\ce{[C]}$ and $\ce{[D]}$ wouldn't change, because the expression for $\text{rate}_\text{f}$ does not contain $\ce{A(s)}$ at all. Therefore, the rate of the forward reaction is not affected by the removal of $\ce{A(s)}$ and the system continues to remain in dynamic equilibrium.
Scenario (2): However, if I set up a new water-filled container containing only $\ce{B(aq)}$, there would be no $\ce{A(s)}$ to react with, and the system would not approach the same equilibrium as above. This is despite: $\text{rate}_{f}=k_{f}\ce{[B]}$, and since $\ce{[B]}>0$, the forward reaction seems like it should proceed. Of course, this is impossible, so logically I would think that the participation of the solid should be accounted for by the pre-exponential factor.
If so, then going back to Scenario (1), would removal of $\ce{A(s)}$ not also affect the pre exponential factor for $\text{k}_f$, thereby shifting the position of equilibrium?
Essentially, how do I resolve this apparent paradox: when the system is at equilibrium, removing $\ce{A(s)}$ doesn't affect $\text{rate}_f$, but when an initial state devoid of $\ce{A(s)}$ is set up, the equation for $\text{rate}_f$ should equal 0.
In true stackexchange fashion, I have tried to resolve this issue myself. Perhaps the answer lies in some hidden way that $\ce{A(s)}$ is accounted for in the pre-exponential factor. Another way I tried to rationalise is by considering that removing $\ce{A(s)}$ from the system at equilibrium does not actually remove all the $\ce{A(s)}$ in the system, if one assumes that a small amount of dissolved $\ce{A(aq)}$ might have entered the solution. But then how would this explanation work for completely insoluble substances? And how would this explanation work if the system was gaseous instead, such that $\ce{ A(s) + B(g) <=> C(g) + D(g)}$, and $\ce{A(s)}$ is a completely non subliming substance like a chunk of metal?
*Important note: please don't answer using considerations of activities and chemical potentials. That would be missing the point. The issue I am having is when considering this problem from a kinetics perspective. Also, I would appreciate an answer considering both the mathematics and the possible conceptual errors.