I recently came across a question comparing the average radius of subshells.
A search on the internet gave the following result for single electron atoms: $$\langle r\rangle_{n,\,l}=\frac{a_0 n^2 \left(\frac{1}{2} \left(1-\frac{l (l+1)}{n^2}\right)+1\right)}{Z}$$
Thus, the average radius should decrease in the order s>p>d for same n
But, I remember the usual saying that goes like s orbitals are more close to the nucleus and d orbitals are more spread out. Or s orbitals have more penetrative power than d orbitals. This same argument is given when computing Zeff, that s shield better than d.
So, are these arguments correct? Also, these arguments come into play in multielectron species. So, does the average radius of subshells follow a different order in multi-electron species? I have tried searching the internet but couldn't find any such data for multi-electron species.
I have already seen this answer and it explains well but it doesn't answer why the above arguments give the wrong result. So, I posted a new question.