I'm all bent out of shape trying to figure out what Bent's rule means. I have several formulations of it, and the most common formulation is also the hardest to understand.
Atomic s character concentrates in orbitals directed toward electropositive substituents
Why would this be true? Consider $\ce{H3CF}$.
Both the carbon and the fluorine are roughly $\ce{sp^3}$ hybridized. Given that carbon is more electropositive than fluorine, am I supposed to make the conclusion that because carbon is more electropositive than fluorine, there is a great deal of s-character in the $\ce{C-F}$ bond and most of this s-character is around the carbon?
Or is this a misunderstanding of "orbitals directed toward electropositive substituents"? The fluorine is $\ce{sp^3}$ hybridized and these orbitals are "directed" toward the carbon in that the big lobe of the hybrid orbital is pointing toward the carbon. So does electron density concentrate near the fluorine? Because that would make more sense.
And this s-character concentrated toward the fluorine has the effect of what on the bond angle? I understand that the more s-character a bond has, the bigger the bond angle - consider $\ce{sp}$ vs $\ce{sp^2}$. But since the $\ce{C-F}$ bond now has less s-character around the carbon, the $\ce{H-C-F}$ bond angle can shrink, correct?