If $\ce{C2O4}$ is very unstable no matter the configuration(that is the structure based on the bonds) and especially unstable in the form that has an oxyanion and a carbocation than how come other carbon oxides are much more stable despite the charges like $\ce{CO}$ for instance.
There are 2 possible structures with octets for this. They are
1) $\ce{C=O}$ with the carbon having 1 lone pair and the oxygen having 2 lone pairs. No charges here.
2) $\ce{C≡O}$ with $\ce{C}$ having 1 lone pair and $\ce{O}$ having 1 lone pair making the oxygen positive and the carbon negative.
This one is an important but very unstable structure.
Why is it so unstable? It is because while carbon isn't so determining as to what charge it prefers, Oxygen is and it really hates being positive because it wants to be either neutral or negative since it is more electronegative than everything else except fluorine. This is why $\ce{H3O+}$ isn't really $\ce{H3O+}$ but rather an ion in a complex of ions is because of how oxygen hates being positive.
So why are other carbon oxides more stable than $\ce{C2O4}$ when they too have very unstable structures like $\ce{CO2}$ having as a resonance structure a single bond to 1 oxygen making it negative, a triple bond to the other making it positive, and the carbon staying neutral? And if every carbon oxide is either unstable no matter the structure or has unstable resonance structures than why do carbon oxides with just carbon and oxygen exist?
And would adding hydrogens to a carbon oxide make the carbon oxide even more stable? By this I mean that with the fact that carbon oxides tend to be unstable and hydrocarbons tend to be stable would a carbon oxide with hydrogens added to it be less stable than a hydrocarbon but more stable than a carbon oxide?
Is this how come glucose is so stable and 6 $\ce{CO}$s bonded together would be extremely unstable just like $\ce{C2O4}$ is?
Sorry if it is too many questions but it is all about 1 thing, Carbon Oxides.