In Szabo and Ostlund's Modern Quantum Chemistry, the matrix elements for the hamiltonian of a two-electron system, with an operator $\hat O$, are written on pages 64-66 as
$$\langle \Psi_0 | \hat O | \Psi_0 \rangle=\int dx_1 dx_2 [2^{-\frac{1}{2}} (\chi_1(x_1)\chi_2(x_2)-\chi_2(x_1)\chi_1(x_2))]^* \cdot \hat O [2^{-\frac{1}{2}} (\chi_1(x_1)\chi_2(x_2)-\chi_2(x_1)\chi_1(x_2))]$$
for a spin orbital $\chi$ of electron x defined as the product of a spacial orbital $\psi(r)$ and spin $\alpha(\omega)$ or $\beta(\omega)$, e.g., $\chi(x)=\psi(r)\alpha(\omega)$.
This is multiplied out into
$$\langle \Psi_0 | \hat O | \Psi_0 \rangle=\frac{1}{2} \int dx_1 dx_2 \{\chi_1^*(x_1)\chi_2^*(x_2)\hat O \chi_1(x_1)\chi_2(x_2)+\chi_2^*(x_1)\chi_1^*(x_2)\hat O \chi_2(x_1)\chi_1(x_2)-\chi_1^*(x_1)\chi_2^*(x_2)\hat O \chi_1(x_1)\chi_2(x_2)-\chi_2^*(x_1)\chi_1^*(x_2)\hat O \chi_2(x_1)\chi_1(x_2)\}$$
This expanded equation is what I will base my question on.
For the core-hamiltonian (one-electron integrals),
$$\hat O=h(r_1)+h(r_2)$$
and for the electron repulsion (two-electron integrals),
$$\hat O=\frac{1}{r_{12}}$$
For the core hamiltonian, you can integrate out the electron which is not being acted upon by the operator to reduce the expanded equation to a one-electron integral.
For the electron repulsion, on page 66 the two-electron integral is simplified by stating the first two terms of the expanded equation are equal. This means:
$$\int \chi_1^*(x_1)\chi_2^*(x_2)\frac{1}{r_{12}} \chi_1(x_1)\chi_2(x_2)= \int \chi_2^*(x_1)\chi_1^*(x_2)\frac{1}{r_{12}} \chi_2(x_1)\chi_1(x_2)$$
This is what I do not follow. How is this derived? I can permute the electrons to achieve the same form, but that would introduce a negative sign.
Furthermore, for the equality to be true, does it not imply one of two scenarios: that either the spatial functions are degenerate, i.e.,
$$\chi_1^*(x_1)=\chi_2^*(x_1)$$ $$\chi_2^*(x_2)=\chi_1^*(x_2)$$ $$\chi_1(x_1)=\chi_2(x_1)$$ $$\chi_2(x_2)=\chi_1(x_2)$$
or otherwise that the electrons have the same spin and coordinate such that $x_1=x_2$
$$\chi_1^*(x_1)=\chi_1^*(x_2)$$ $$\chi_2^*(x_1)=\chi_2^*(x_2)$$ $$\chi_1(x_1)=\chi_1(x_2)$$ $$\chi_2(x_1)=\chi_2(x_2)$$
neither of which would make sense.