Thermodynamic properties are functions of composition, which can be represented as $(\chi _1,...,\chi _N)$ where $\chi _i$ is the mole fraction of component $i$ present in the system. Now imagine a change in the composition such that the amount of component $i$ is increased by a very small quantity $dn _i$ (alternately, imagine the system to be infinitely large), and a thermodynamic property $X$ is changed by $dX$. Then (using the notation you describe) we define the partial molar property as $$\bar{X}=\left(\frac{\partial X}{\partial n_i}\right)_{p,T,n_j}$$ This notation means that we make a limiting, infinitely small change in $n_i$, such that the change in $X$ is for all practical purposes nil, ie $\Delta X=0$. The partial molar quantity describes the slope of the property $X$ (which can be represented as a surface in a multidimensional manifold) along the composition coordinate $n_i$, at a specific composition $(\chi _1,...,\chi _N)$.