# Why must polar molecules be asymetrical? [duplicate]

As I understand, polarity in molecules comes from the difference in electronegativity or the ability of the atoms to attract eletrons so the electrons spend more time or are more probable to gravitate more around the atom with stronger electronegativity right? So I wonder why polar molecules must necessarily have an asymetrical structure? (as I've read on multiple sites). Shouldn't a symetrical atom with strong electronegativity with 2 atoms bonded linearly 180° on both sides which are significantly less electronegative, be polar since the electrons would gravitate more towards the center and the sides would then be more positively charged? What am I missing here?

Why is the first molecule (1) not possible? Is it becuase of the less polar atom on the left side repells electrons just as much as the one on the right? But then the electrons would still orbit the middle atom more because its more elctronegative, right?

• I meant gravitate not orbit in the last sentence – Žan Spehonja Jun 2 '19 at 19:39
• You ain't missing anything. The first molecule is surely possible, and indeed does exist (think CO2), and is quite definitely very polar. Some people would claim it isn't polar because it has zero dipole moment. They are irrelevant. – Ivan Neretin Jun 2 '19 at 19:41
• So symetrical molecules can be polar and the sources that say otherwise are wrong? Thank you. – Žan Spehonja Jun 2 '19 at 19:43
• – Mithoron Jun 2 '19 at 19:44
• Zero net dipole moment means zero net dipole, just that. Molecules shouldn't be call polar, it only leads to misunderstandings. Solvents can and should be, but still with some measure of caution. – Mithoron Jun 2 '19 at 19:47

then it's not hard to understand why a molecule such as $$\ce{CO2}$$ containing a center of inversion lacks a dipole moment and is therefore "nonpolar", as are, by this definition, other molecules with high symmetry properties and lacking a net dipole moment: