The energy and speed do not affect particles themselves, but their interactions with other diatomic objects.
And, of course, they affect their kinematics in electromagnetic field.
Kinetic energy of a particle is
$$E_\mathrm{k}=\frac 12 \cdot m \cdot v^2$$
The force on a charged particle in an electrostatic field of the strength $E$ is
$$\vec F=q\cdot \vec E$$
The perpendicular acceleration is
$$\vec a=\vec F/m=\frac{q\cdot \vec E}{m}$$
For the length of the path between the electrodes $L$, the time of flight is
$$t=\frac Lv=L \cdot \sqrt{ \left( \frac {m}{2\cdot E_\mathrm{k}}\right)}$$
The perpendicular deviation due the acceleration in the field is
$$\begin{align}
\vec L_\mathrm{p}&=\frac 12 \cdot a \cdot t^2 \\
&= \frac 12 \cdot \frac{q\cdot \vec E}{m} \cdot \left( \frac {L^2\cdot m}{2\cdot E_\mathrm{k}}\right) \\
&= \frac 14 \cdot q \cdot L^2 \cdot \frac{\vec E}{E_\mathrm{k}}\\
\end{align}$$
One can see the bending with the equal kinetic energy is mass independent.
The scenario with the equal speed is a different story, as the perpendicular acceleration has the reciprocal proportionality to the mass, so the path of the much lighter electron is bent much more.