Why it is easier for the carbonyl group to lose a proton to become negatively charged and the amino group to accept a proton to become positively charged?
I know it has to do with the very polar bond due to the oxygen. And the $\ce{H+}$ ions attracted to the lone pair of electrons on $\ce{N}$ in the amino group.
But I don't understand why would an electronegative atom such as oxygen wants to lose a proton.
I was told that they will attract more electrons towards towards them. But that does not help in my understanding of why protons will leave.