I had the opportunity to work with a NMR spectrometer and decided to learn some of the theory behind it. After finishing Clayden's chapter on $^{1}\textrm{H}$ NMR (Ch. 11) I'm still left with some questions, mostly concerning coupling.
Proton coupling is described as the interaction between neighboring (2-4 bonds away) protons magnetic field. This can split the signals by a constant amount (the coupling constant), which depend on the environment of the protons but not on the strength of the magnetic field. Ideally creating a binomial distribution when the neighboring protons have the same shift.
- How does a proton create a magnetic field that influences the neighboring protons (mainly) through bonding and not through space?
- Why do identical protons not influence each other? Or more generally: why is it that the more identical the influencing protons are with the influenced proton (i.e. $\Delta\delta$ getting equal to/lower than $J$), the more their "outer" signals vanish? Especially since $J$ is a constant, I would expect that for example two doublets would just merge into one doublet and not into only a singlet.