The beryllium ion, $\ce{Be^{2+}}$, forms the aquo complex $\ce{[Be(H2O)4]^{2+}}$. According to LibreTexts, this complex is acidic in solution: $$\ce{[Be(H2O)4]^{2+} + H2O -> [Be(H2O)3OH]+ + H3O+}$$
It is not clear to me why it should be acidic. I read here that "the hydrolysis happens because the $\ce{Be−O}$ bond is very strong and so in the hydrated ion this weakens the $\ce{O−H}$ bonds hence there is a tendency to lose protons."
I have two questions:
- What is meant by a "very strong" $\ce{Be-O}$ bond? Is it stronger than those in other metal aquo complexes? If berylium's tendency to hold on to water ligands is unusually strong, is it due to its small ionic size?
- Why does a strong $\ce{Be-O}$ make the $\ce{O-H}$ bond weaker? I know that oxygen forms a coordinate bond with metal cation so the electrons in the $\ce{O-H}$ bonds would get shifted towards oxygen. But as far as I can tell this only makes the $\ce{O-H}$ bonds more polar. Why does a polar bond have to be a weaker one?